Wednesday, June 01, 2005

Weaning Part 1 - Breastfeeding

Out of the blue one day, your husband or significant other, whom you love very much, informs you that he no longer wants to hug or kiss or be intimate with you. You are stunned, shocked and bewildered because you had no idea there was anything wrong. He explains that there really isn’t anything wrong; it’s just time for the two of you to stop clinging to one another. He really loves you more now than ever, but it’s time for you to find another source of comfort because he’s decided that the hugs and kisses aren’t working for him any more. Dumbfounded, you also learn that when you try to hug him anyway, he quickly pushes you away. In fact, he has decided that every time you do hug him, you will get a quick “zap” similar to a dog who wears a bark collar. You think to yourself, “This is crazy. After years of marriage, this makes no sense. What is wrong with my husband? What is wrong with me?”


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